How can I get custody of my son, do not need a home with two parents and a Christian family? ?
I live in South Africa son, 3, United States. I went to the University of Maryland several years ago, and I went out there with a girl and she was pregnant. Shortly after that I lost visa, he had left school, but deported. I asked her to marry him, so he can stay, but she refused to marry me. So Now I am married with one child and want to care for my son. I've heard that it is as a single parent would be best for the child to life married with a partner, a father in their lives. How can I get custody of my child? She herself is an atheist, have a strong belief in my house Chrisian. I no, do not pay child support, because nobody asked me.
Personally I do not think you should put in your ex and the child. Only the fact that they are willing to baby from the mother – the father and only he knows from birth I'm afraid that takes my breath away (because of the argument), how you want your child with his wife will be taken by her ex, who lived in another country, and even keep it on the eyes. Not only that, but I do not think you can expect to do. Furthermore, just because it has a different faith for himself, does not mean fewer people than you. sorry if this offends, but my honest opinion is that if you do, frankly, they are the lowest of the low.
Why do YA delete questions that aren’t even offensive sometimes?
Last week I posted a question asking why people say bad things about Islam when they don’t even know what it preaches? And I was writing a reply to a guy who asked if a Christian can date a Muslim and it was deleted for offensive material after I tried to post my comment.
Report monkeys.
They invade the board from time to time and report things simply because they disagree. They are pedantic, and can use technical infringements as an excuse. So it’s not Y!A themselves.
I feel we should be tolerant of all sorts of nonsense here, and only ever report commercial spam (relatively rare now) and persistent personal abuse, which I only saw for the first time quite recently.
It happens to us all. I recommend you appeal every time it happens. Some you’ll win, some you’ll lose. C’est la vie.
A friend of mine who lives in South Africa met a guy from the USA on a christian penpal site….?
She’s been in contact with him and internet “dating” him for the last year. They are talking about getting married in October when he will visit her in South Africa. Do they need to petition a fiancee visa for her first, or can they get married and then petition a spousal visa. Will there be problems because they have never met in person yet?
They are really serious and very much in love. Please help. They talk every day through Yahoo messanger and see each other on the webcam. Friends of her who immigrated to the US have met him and says he’s a great guy.
Quite apart from the immigration rules requiring evidence of a proper “eye-to-eye” physical relationship your friend should consider that a long-distance relationship changes when you meet. You get to find out about all the annoying little habits the other person has. For that reason, it is better to spend a few holidays together first.
My wife and I spent three months online and on the phone – several hours a day – before we met physically. After we did that, our relationship changed. It was better because we were physically together but we also had to re-learn what the other was like. We spent two more holidays together over four months (whilst talking every day for several hours and getting the big issues that make or break any marriage resolved). After that third visit, I proposed and we then had two further visits (including a full two weeks together). We could have called it off at any point until I actually sold my house and bought a one-way plane ticket.
What I’m trying to say is that internet relationships are no substitute for real-time physical interaction.
Returning to immigration matters, one visit which includes getting married will cause immigration to look very closely at the petition. There is no guarantee it will be approved on that basis.
We’ve been dating for almost 2yrs and i was wondering why he still has his exes numbers in his phone? I asked him and he said because they are his friends. The thing is he doesn’t call alot of the girls in his phone, only a few (who weren’t gf’s)and i know who they are. Guys-if you do it too, why? And girls-what would you do? It bothers me a little but I’m not like gonna go delete numbers outta his phone or anything, lol.
i have complete trust in him so i know he wouldn’t cheat on me and i would no if he was
we sometimes keep those numbers because they really are just friends….there should be noting to worry about…..
I’m ok if other gay guys don’t find me attractive, it’s not in my control. But what I don’t get is there are guys who chat with me, ask me out, then just….disappear with no reason. Why is that? Did I do something wrong? I act normal, I don’t stalk them or cling or anything. If they never contacted me at first, it wouldn’t feel as bad.
Do you have similar experiences with internet dating?
I don’t internet date, i don’t find it positive. but, maybe they are just being like that because they are too bored or want to move on to other guys. don’t take it too personal. ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND THAT HANDSOME PRINCE CHARMING. GOOD LUCK;)
